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When Eva Medilek talks about success, she’s not preaching hustle culture. She’s not selling the idea that 18-hour workdays are badges of honor. Instead, she’s inviting high achievers to look closer at their relationships, their health, their habits and ask if their version of success is costing them more than it’s worth.
Because for Eva, this isn’t a theory. It’s lived experience.
A Personal Wake-Up Call
Before Eva Medilek became a sought-after coach, speaker, author, and trainer, she was a dental hygienist building a real estate business on the side. Her schedule was packed, her energy stretched thin, and her attention constantly divided between professional goals and personal responsibilities. Then came the moment that changed everything.
“I discovered infidelity in my marriage,” she says. “I was working full-time, building my business, running the household, and trying to keep everything afloat. I was exhausted, and that exhaustion was quietly taking a toll — on my health, my mood, and especially how I showed up as a wife.”
The discovery was devastating. But it also served as a mirror, forcing her to confront a hard truth: her relentless pursuit of achievement had come at the expense of her most important relationships.
“I had to take responsibility for how my ‘do-it-all’ mindset contributed to the breakdown,” she says. “That self-awareness became the beginning of our breakthrough.”
Instead of letting the fracture define them, Eva and her husband chose a different path: therapy, coaching, rebuilding. Through that healing process, something shifted. She saw how many other professionals were chasing the same illusion of success and burning out in the process.
“One day my husband looked at me and said, ‘You need to help others the way you helped us.’ That was the moment I knew this was my calling.”
Spotting the Hidden Habits That Sabotage Success
Today, Eva works with ambitious professionals and leadership teams across industries. Whether she’s coaching executives or speaking on stage, her message is clear: high performance shouldn’t come at the expense of your well-being or your relationships.
When asked what derails most high achievers, Eva doesn’t hesitate.
“One of the biggest performance-sabotaging habits I see is the refusal to delegate. There’s this mindset of, ‘If I want it done right, I’ll do it myself.’ It may have worked early in their careers, but over time it becomes a bottleneck.”
Another silent culprit? Lack of boundaries.
“Leaders often let constant interruptions like calls, texts, emails hijack their focus. It stretches their workday into personal time, leading to chronic fatigue and low-quality output. They end the day drained, with nothing left for their loved ones or themselves.”
And it’s not just about what they do, it’s also about what they don’t do.
“They’re not practicing energy-generating habits. They fill their time with low-impact tasks instead of the ones that move the needle. They’re busy, but not productive.”
To break these patterns, Eva developed her CPR Formula: Clarity, Prioritization, and Responsibility. It’s a simple but powerful framework designed to help leaders get clear on what truly matters, set boundaries, and take full ownership of their time and energy.
“This is how they learn to perform at their best without burning out.”
Over the years, her leadership and influence have earned her a long list of recognitions, including The Brainz Crea Global Award, The Los Angeles Tribune Outstanding Leadership Recognition, and The CXO 2.0 Outstanding Leadership Award.
She is also the recipient of The Evolutionary Business Council’s Bronze Mentorship Award, the Fearless Woman of Inspiration Award, and was named a Goody Book Award Finalist.
The Art of Listening: A Leadership Essential
If there’s one skill Eva believes every leader must master, it’s listening — real, intentional listening. Especially in today’s fast-moving, hybrid work environments where diverse perspectives and remote collaboration are the norm.
She teaches her clients the L.A.P.I. Listening Framework, a method that fosters inclusive and effective communication: Listen, Acknowledge, Paraphrase, Inquire.
“It’s about slowing down and really hearing people,” she says. “Acknowledging what someone shares shows respect. Paraphrasing ensures clarity. And inquiring with thoughtful questions deepens understanding.”
It’s the kind of communication that builds trust. And trust, Eva believes, is the currency of modern leadership.
“When leaders communicate this way, they create space for dialogue and innovation to thrive. People feel seen and heard. And that’s what keeps teams engaged and motivated.”
Balancing Ambition With Presence
Eva’s resume is nothing short of dynamic. She’s a speaker, a high-performance coach, a real estate investor, and a leadership trainer. But behind the scenes, she’s also a wife, a lifelong learner, and a woman who genuinely enjoys her morning walks.
So how does she keep it all from spinning out?
“I struggle with shiny object syndrome,” she laughs. “I’m curious by nature, whether it’s a new recipe or a business idea. But that curiosity can lead to feeling scattered.”
Her anchor, once again, is the CPR Formula. Every evening, she looks ahead to the next day and defines her priorities. The following morning, she returns to the list with intention.
“I ask myself, ‘What are the needle-moving tasks today? What really deserves my energy?’ And I block time for those before anything else.”
She’s also fiercely protective of her mornings.
“The first two hours of my day are mine. I walk, meditate, work out, and eat a nourishing breakfast. Those routines clear my mind and reduce stress. They help me show up strong.”
Another non-negotiable? Create before you consume.
“I work on my top priorities before I even check my inbox. That way I’m focused on what matters to me, not reacting to what everyone else needs.”
And when the day gets chaotic, Eva leans into a simple question: “Is this aligned with my priorities, or is it pulling me away?”
Building Cultures That Retain Top Talent
Burnout is no longer just a personal issue; it’s a business one. Teams are disengaged. Talented people are quietly quitting. And companies are scrambling to retain their best.
According to Eva, the problem isn’t a lack of effort. It’s a lack of understanding.
“Most managers jump straight to performance feedback without pausing to ask, ‘Why is this person struggling?’ They correct before they connect.”
Her advice for forward-thinking organizations? Get curious. Use frameworks like L.A.P.I. to uncover what’s really going on. Maybe the employee is overwhelmed. Maybe they’re unclear on expectations. Or maybe they’re quietly dealing with something personal.
“The key is to create a space where people can speak up without fear. When communication is open and transparent, you can actually support them in meaningful ways — through mental health resources, flexible schedules, or simply more recognition.”
Retention, she says, starts with relationships.
“When people feel seen, heard, and valued, they stay. And they bring their best.”
Looking Ahead: Expanding the Impact
While Eva continues to work closely with individuals and leadership teams, she’s also thinking bigger. Her next chapter is about access, making high-performance coaching and leadership development more widely available.
One of her newest initiatives is an on-demand course called The Inclusive Community Blueprint. It’s designed for professionals who want to deepen their leadership skills, even if their company hasn’t invested in formal training.
“It’s for people who want to grow, both personally and professionally. It’s accessible, actionable, and rooted in the same frameworks I use with my private clients.”
And that’s the thread that runs through all of Eva’s work: helping high achievers succeed without sacrificing themselves along the way.
“You don’t have to choose between your ambition and your relationships. You don’t have to burn out to be brilliant. There’s a better way to lead and live and I’m here to help people find it.”
You can explore more about Eva Medilek’s course at evamedilek.com/ICB
